keep in mind

PNMs need to keep in mind a few things.. One is that certain houses are not "awkward" for a reason. Most of their girls were raised in known families, usually in alabama, and are very, very good at making people feel comfortable in social situations, i.e. rushing, because they've been doing it their whole lives. There is nothing wrong with this, and if this is you (although most of those people don't read greek rank) then great!
My point is that if you felt a little awkward at a party, the girl is probably just a normal girl who was as nervous as you were. It seems like PNM's think that actives who have trouble keeping up a conversation for 30+ minutes with someone they've never met are awkward like that all the time. They're not, and it will be ok if (axo,ddd,agd,whoever) and their pro rushers cut you. Just food for thought.