what to do?
by: FrustratedI was dropped twice. Once freshman year, once sophomore year. I joined 8 on campus organizations last year and still felt like something was missing. So I decided to go greek. I have a clean rep and I made a 3.2 in college. I am also an ex-pageant queen and active in my church. I really desperately want to be in a sorority still, as it is something I dreamed of for a very long time. Is it worth it to rush as a junior or to do spring rush? I'm frustrated because I felt like I was well qualified and knew girls in the houses. I want to be greek so badly and it really hurts to be told I am not good enough TWICE.
#12by: Don't
Do not pay attention to anyone that is trying to drag you down. As you can tell this site is full of hate and cruelty. It is what some people have to do in their lives to feel better about themselves. The meanness has nothing to do with you and everything about now they feel inside. There will be another COB in the spring. Work on getting your grades up. Don't let anyone tell you what you can't do in life. EVER.
#14by: @frustrated
I would suggest getting to know some girls in a house that might end up doing COB activities later during the year. Surely there are girls in sororities in your classes and in activities you participate in. Make contact with some of them and tell them you're interested. Good luck!
#15by: Stop
#17by: Do it
Don't listen to anyone, spend your whole sophomore year dedicated to doing everything you can to get into a house. Make friends with sisters, Facebook them, add them on Twitter and Instagram. Make sure you let them know that you're also super interested in COB.
When you don't get a COB, don't give up! Spend the money on registration, outfits etc... Spend hours getting recs lined up and turned in.
When you again get released from formal recruitment, bless your heart you can go to the top of my post and re-read it changing sophomore to junior.
#20by: OP
I'm the orginial poster and I actually haven't responded to any post except for the one about Sigma Kappa and SDT. I came here seeking honest advice because I had wanted to be greek for a very long time and I honestly did not know what to do. It's hurtful to know out there that someone was pretending to be me on this website and saying things that just aren't true. I'm coming to terms with the fact that I will not be greek here and it's really hard for me to deal with and quite heartbreaking. If I was blackballed then so be it, obviously it wasn't in the cards for me. Additionally, I would not want to be a member of organizations that would purposely exclude someone and cause someone to go through the pain that I have these past years. Although, I love Alabama, it obviously looks like this isn't the place for me and I will be transferring.
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by: Ummm
She's a pageant queen. I don't think looks were an issue