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If you're a good recruiting house, you are generally VERY good at making girls want to join by making them feel as comfortable and wanted as possible. There is definitely a difference as to what is considered doing that and what is dirty rushing. Recruiters can hug you, touch you, whatever. That's normal, and with most people, just smart recruiting. They can't let you leave the house with anything from that house, like the cup for water you get or a napkin. That could be misconstrued as a bribe. If they let you walk out the door with it, they'll get fined. Recruiters can't say "see you tomorrow" because it implies that, again, you'll be back for the next day, which they don't know will be the case yet. Again, they will get fined if they get caught saying this. Recruiters can make "I statements" like "I really enjoyed our conversation today," "I really like you," "I can see you here," etc. These will generally come on Pref night as a way of letting a PNM know that they want to seal the deal with you, but generally not before that. They CANNOT make "we statements" like "we want you to be our sister," "we can see you helping us out so much during Greek Beats," or "we want you here," this is bid promising and very illegal/really finable. These are the big no-no's, but to be honest, most girls go through something similar to what you've described. Good recruiting houses recruit well for a reason. Even if you are the strangest, most anti-social, I hate this whole thing so much PNM on the planet, their goal is to make you want them, even if they really don't.